關於 repentance parents guide ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

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【離苦得樂的大法緣】(English writing below)

有些父母，還沒來得及見到自己的孩子，就得爲幼小的嬰靈「出殯」。

昨天早上，有一位我從未見過的女讀者，私訊告訴我她六週大的胚胎已離她而去。她看過我講關於墮胎和流產的臉書直播，於是問如何爲她的水子靈報名超度。

在此，提醒大家，居家內勿擺放太多水晶或風水吉祥物。這些都會影響母親受孕及懷胎，也會破壞親子關係等等。

有些東西催得了財，卻會堵住子嗣運，讓你無法添丁。擺錯了，更會讓你「丁財兩空」。

也有些案列，當夫妻事業越來越好時，會猛然發現孩子的問題卻特別多，不聽話、學業不佳、健康頻頻出狀況、迷戀不健康的東西等等。

風水這門事，需要把一個家庭所有人的八字放在一起，再配合這個居家的風水一起看，來達到最有效的方案。不是隨便買個東西，放在所謂的吉祥方位，就能發的不清不楚。千萬也別隨便推薦人家亂買。

你的八字如果承受不起，又或者那位指點你的人福德不足，那就必需從你命中的另外一環去扣。這樣才符合因果律。

所以厲害的風水師，一定會自己修得好，再盡她他全力保你闔家平安，財源滾滾。這是我們的職業道德，不能像一般人一樣「見錢眼開」，不管客人家運的安危。

清明節要到了，大家都會去拜祖先，有的會祈求祖先保佑。但祖先如果活著的時候，沒什麼修善功，死前還病苦連連，你認為她他死後化為鬼，就會有更大的能力來保佑你們龐大的家族嗎？

我看到的事實是，很多祖先自身難保，後代沒持續爲他們超度，消業增福，結果祖先後代通通都不順。

我個人不主張吃拜過祖先的食物，尤其是孕婦，因爲一般祖先屬陰，我們屬陽。把他們吃過的食物，吃進來，我們身上的陰氣鬼氣會加重。

無論是墮胎還是流產的婦女，都應該坐小月子，把身體調好，除了報名超度，也得安水子靈牌位，及修懺悔法。

如果你想：

❤️ 盡孝道幫助自己祖先往投更好的境界，
🤒 爲病重的家人祈福超度他們的纏身靈，
👶🏻 爲墮胎或流產的孩子報名超度，
❤️ 爲自己的纏身靈冤親債主報名超度解怨

我大力推薦你可以報名我根本上師聖尊蓮生活佛這個星期六，2019年3月30日，主壇的《淨土三尊清明超度護摩大法會》。

淨土三尊，即是西方三聖，教主爲「南無阿彌陀佛」，左脅侍持淨瓶的「南無觀音菩薩」和右脅侍持蓮花「南無大勢至菩薩」。

能夠「一心不亂」的唸佛，臨終時，便會有西方三聖持著蓮台來接引你，往生西方極樂世界。

做不到，臨終時，會見到鬼祖先來個welcome party, 牛頭馬面和大二爺伯。這時，就得仰賴有大法力的成就者來爲亡者超度。

我爲何相信蓮生活佛能夠幫助你？因爲我親身體驗過，我和我家人祖先的故事就寫了在這臉書文章：goo.gl/KbCcXW

欲想報名這個星期六下午三點的《淨土三尊清明超度護摩大法會》，請在今天下午五點前到台灣雷藏寺網站，註冊爲會員，使用網路報名系統報名護摩法會：

💻 台灣雷藏寺網址： ➡️ https://tbsec.org/
📩 線上報名法會➡️ https://goo.gl/TnVyyW
📩 線上報名系統說明 ➡️ https://bit.ly/2O0DlSH

如果過了截至時間，你可以下載報名超度法會表格和匯款資料，再發電郵給雷藏寺。

報名祖先可寫：
祖先姓名或例如，李（你的姓）氏歷代祖先。

報名水子靈：
XXX （母親姓名）之水子靈，地址是牌位地址或母親居住地址。

報名超度，供養隨意，但我覺得如果後代太吝嗇，祖先可能會托夢來「打屁股」吧。😄

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There are some parents who never get to see their child, and already had to make "funeral arrangement" for the young infant spirit.

Two days ago, I received a PM in the morning from a lady reader whom I had never met. She told me how her 6-week-old embryo had left her. She watched my old FB Live on abortion and miscarriage, and wanted to know how she could register for deliverance for her baby spirit.

My gentle reminder to everyone: Do not place excessive crystals and auspicious Feng Shui ornaments in your home. These can affect the chances of a healthy pregnancy, and also spoil the relations between the parents and their children.

While such objects may be able to bring in wealth, they will also obstruct the luck of having descendants. When placed in the wrong sector at home, you end up losing both money and your children.

I have also seen such cases: as the careers and wealth of the couple improve, their children woes also escalate e.g. disobedient behaviour, poor academic results, deteriorating health, unhealthy addictions etc.

A good quality Feng Shui audit requires putting together the Bazi of all the family members, with the home Feng Shui, so as to reach the most effective and efficient solutions, that do not compromise on anyone in the household.

Buying something randomly and placing it in the so-called auspicious location is not going to help you prosper like mad. Hence, do not ever recklessly recommend such objects to others.

If your Bazi is not up to it, or the person who advises you does not have sufficient merits and virtues to "transfer" to you, then the "wealth" that you gain has to be compensated by something else in your Destiny, so as to fulfil the Law of Karma.

This is why a competent Feng Shui practitioner is definitely one who cultivates him/herself well, and put in his/her best effort to ensure the safety, peace and continuous inflow of wealth for your family. Such is our professional ethic to uphold, and not to drool at the sight of money, disregarding the safety of our clients' family luck.

Qing Ming Festival is just round the corner. Many of us would be praying to our ancestors. Some will seek the blessings of our ancestors. But think about it, if your ancestor did not accumulate much virtuous deeds while alive, and suffered immensely due to sickness before his/her death, how likely is he/her be able to have greater powers to bless the entire family clan, just because he/she became a ghost?

The reality that I see is that many ancestors are having a hard time themselves in the netherworld. When their descendants do not continuously register for bardo deliverance for them, to eradicate their negative karma and increase their good fortune, both the descendants and ancestors have a hard time in their respective worlds.

By the way, I do not advocate consuming foods and drinks that have been offered to the ancestors. This goes out to ESPECIALLY pregnant ladies. Because ancestors belong to the Yin realm, while we living beings are in the Yang realm. Consuming their food will introduce excessive Yin ghostly qi in our bodies, destroying our Yang energy.

Whether the baby is lost through abortion or miscarriage, the mother should still do a short confinement to nurse her body back to better health. Apart from registering for bardo deliverance, the parents should also enshrine a tablet for the baby spirit at the temple, and cultivate repentance practice.

If you wish to:

❤️ demonstrate filial piety and help your ancestors be reborn in a better realm,
🤒 help your sickly family member to seek blessings and deliver his/her karmic creditors,
👶🏻 register for bardo deliverance for your aborted/miscarriaged child,
❤️ resolve the debt of enmity between you and your karmic creditors and sign them up for bardo deliverance,

I strongly recommend that you can register for this Saturday's, 30 March 2019, Qing Ming Bardo Deliverance Pure Land Trinity Homa Ceremony, presided by my Root Guru, His Holiness Living Buddha Lian-Sheng.

The Pure Land Trinity, otherwise known as the The Three Saints of the West, comprised of the leader Amitabha Buddha, Avalokitesvara (Guan Shi Yin) Bodhisattva on His left who holds a purification vase and willow leaves, and Mahasthamaprapta Bodhisattva on His right who holds lotus bud.

When you can recite the name of Amitabha Buddha single-mindedly, as you pass on, you will see The Three Saints of the West and the entourage of sages appearing to welcome you with your lotus throne. You will then be reborn in the Western Pure Land of Paradise.

If you cannot do it, as you die, you will see your ghostly ancestors throwing a welcome party for you, as well the Ox-Head and Horse-Face Hell Guards, and the Black and White Impermanence deities coming for you. At this time, you can only rely on the supreme transcendental powers of an accomplished cultivator to deliver the dead.

Why do I have faith that Living Buddha Lian-Sheng can help you? Because I have personally experienced it myself. The story of my family, my ancestors and myself is written in this FB article: goo.gl/KbCcXW

To register for this Saturday 3pm, Qing Ming Bardo Deliverance The Three Saints of the West Homa Ceremony, please register an account online at the website of Taiwan Lei Tsang Temple, and use the online registration system to sign up for the Homa Ceremony：

💻 Taiwan Lei Tsang Temple website： ➡️ https://tbsec.org/
📩 Online Homa Registration URL ➡️ https://goo.gl/TnVyyW
📩 Guide to Online Registration ➡️ https://bit.ly/2O0DlSH

(The deadline for online application for every Saturday's Homa Ceremony is till Friday 5pm. After which, you will have to email the temple with the downloaded forms.)

Registration for ancestors:
Name of the deceased or 李（your surname）氏歷代祖先。

Registration for fetal spirits:
XXX （name of Mother）之水子靈，
Address would be either the tablet temple address or the mother's residential address.

The donation amount for Homa Ceremony registration is entirely your choice. But in my humble opinion, if you are too stingy to your ancestors, they may very well appear in your dreams to give you a good spanking. 😄

【玳瑚師父出差錄】 你不要的那個小孩還在
The baby you did not want is still around　(English version below)

上個星期一，我到台中的新光三越買褲。 在臺灣買褲一大好處是櫃檯專賣店都提供即刻改褲的服務。 等待當兒，我向售貨員要了一張白紙，免費為她測名。

離開前，我問：“你有曾經不要過孩子嗎？”

她一臉驚訝地點了點頭說有。

“你要為你的孩子報名超度。他一直還在你的身邊走來走去。”

我不只看到售貨員的嬰靈，也稱爲水子靈，更看到她未來精神的問題。我看人不是單純地看外貌，而是看進去裏面，看他的氣色、他的磁場、他的思維。

我看到很多女客人身邊有水子靈，但她們絲毫沒有悔意，可見這問題很大，需要多去告訴人們水子靈會帶來的問題。

很多人對‘失去’的孩子都漠不關心。世人無知，不知蓄意墮胎，先影響到個人，然後家庭、社會，之後就是國家。很多家庭的風波如孩子叛逆、事業不振、生意衰敗、疾病纏身、夫妻失和，就是因爲沒有人去留意這些被遺忘的孩子。等到事情發生時，才去求神拜佛。其實真正要求的是自己。

在這宇宙閒，根本沒有一個人有權利剝奪另外一個人的生命，或一個生物，就算肉眼看不到的細菌，這些都是不能夠的，更何況是一個比較具有靈性的人。衆生皆有佛性，墮胎如殺佛。 五戒裏面，殺生為第一重罪，所以妻財子祿這些福都會在頓時閒被消除很多很多，如一粒苹果在分秒中被切成一半，所以不可不慎。

很多人以為經過人工墮胎，孩子就不會出現在她們的生命里。告訴你，你的想法是錯，錯，錯。被打掉的孩子會以另外一個形體留在你的身邊，因爲你還欠他，而這個欠是多了一倍，甚至多好幾倍。你下一個生出來的孩子，爲什麽會是體弱多病、軟骨、有唐氏綜合症或很難教，多方面地耗盡你的體力、家產和精神，不是沒有原因啊！

被殺的孩子最想看到我們誠懇地懺悔跟向他道歉，再求真正有證量的法師/修行人為水子靈做超度法事。這樣雙方之間才能夠解掉那個冤，否則未來一定是悲慘的。我看到我的女客人，因爲水子靈的問題，身體有異味、脫髮、睡不好、健康每況愈下、甚至有婦女健康和精神問題。就算當初是男伴要求墮胎，女的責任始終比較多因爲她是做出最終決定的人。

我們都要快樂輕鬆地過日子，曾幾何時卻增加了自己的負擔？所以大家要動動腦筋，不要一失足成千古恨。

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Last Monday, I was buying a pair of pants at the Shin Kong Mitsukoshi department store in Taichung. The good thing about buying pants in Taiwan is the on-the-spot alteration service they provide. While waiting for the alteration, I asked for a piece of paper from the sales lady and gave her a free Name Analysis.

Before leaving, I asked, "Have you not want a child before?"

She nodded yes, with a bewildered look on her face.

"The spirit of your child is still lingering around you. You need to enroll in puja sessions to deliver his spirit to a better realm. "
What I saw was not just the fetus spirit, I also saw the emotional ailments that would take place in the sales lady in time to come. When I look at a person, I see beyond the outer appearance and read into their energy fields and mental thoughts.

A lot of my female clients have fetus spirits with them from their past abortions but scarily, they have little regret. This is a serious matter that needs a much broader awareness on the implications of abortions.

Many people are not concerned about their aborted babies. A great majority of us are ignorant about the grave effect of deliberate abortion, from oneself to the other family members, even affecting our society and country on the whole. Family problems like difficult children, flagging careers, failing businesses, illnesses and broken marriages are caused by our neglect to these fetus spirits. It's not too late to repent now.

In this universe, no one has the right to take away the life of another person, another animal and even the micro-organisms which escape our naked eyes. There exists a Buddha nature in all living beings. To abort a child is akin to killing a Buddha. I sincerely hope all of us will meet enlightened ones in our life to guide us onto the path of light.

Amongst the five precepts of Buddhism, the act of killing carries the most severity, heavily and speedily reducing our fortunes in marriage, wealth, descendants, career and health. It is akin to halving an apple in a split second, thus we need to be very cautious against committing the act of killing.

Many who had an abortion perceived that their child would not appear in their lives again. How wrong you are! Their aborted fetus spirits will manifest in other forms, as their karmic debtors. The next child that comes along is likely to be sickly or very hard to teach, draining the energy and resources of the parents. This is the law of karma!

The aborted children seek a sincere apology from their parents and a true cultivator with the ability to do deliverance pujas for them. It is only through sincere repentance that the enmity and grievances in the spirits of the aborted children can be resolved. Misfortune befalls those who chose otherwise. Many of my female clients with past abortions suffered from various ailments: strange body odor, hair loss, poor sleep, women health issues and even declining mental health. Even though the man might have initiated, the woman is ultimately the final decision maker when it comes to abortion and thus bears a larger responsibility.

Everyone yearns for an easy, carefree life, but why are we adding burdens to ourselves? Let's think harder about this for one wrong step may cause a lifelong of regret.

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