It’s always baffled me that we think it’s appropriate to remark about changes in someone’s weight when we see them... this video has been a long time coming.
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Do we think they have no mirrors in their house and they haven’t noticed?
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I’ve used a few examples here that are closest to my personal experiences, but it’s an issue that affects people young and old, skinny, fat and everything in between.
Everyone seems incapable of putting themselves in the other person’s shoes.
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It’s really fucking simple. Just shut the fuck up and keep your observations the fuck to yourself.
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Maybe it’s a dear friend and you’re concerned about what the changes in their physique indicate about their lifestyle and their happiness... well then find a way to ask them about that! There are plenty of ways to ask someone how they’re doing and if they’re taking care of themselves without highlighting how it shows to everyone who looks at them.
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I live behind the scenes these days, working with people who struggle with their physiques and as a confident for friends. I know how sensitive a subject it is, even if they don’t show it and nervously laugh off comments.
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I grew up thinking it was an Asian thing, but then I realised that in Asia people (particularly older relatives) are particularly blunt about it with “Wah, so fat now ah?” whereas in the West people like to make it a joke with a “Ooh heck, you’ve let yourself go a bit eh mate!”.
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Both parties can go fuck themselves, and I’d love it if as many of you as possible who ever get made even slightly self-conscious about such remarks would take it upon yourselves to tell them so 🖕🏽
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Spread the word. Maybe, if it happens enough, we can sway the culture.
my mate 在 [心得] My Mate Match (同居試愛) ep1 - 看板ThaiDrama 的推薦與評價
劇名：My Mate Match / 中譯：同居試愛
年份：2021/10/9首播
播出平台：LINETV
預計播放集數：6
分類：BL愛情
今天看到LINE TV新上架這部，看了一下主角三位顏質都很不錯
馬上看完第一集
防雷
內容主要是說一個單飛的網紅租了一個新房子，
但單飛後收入不如預期，租金負擔吃緊，
所以徵室友來分攤，
而房東簽約條件只接受最多兩人入住，
但帶看的陰錯陽差下同時有兩人要租，
所以展開一個月的三人同居，測試兩人生活習慣，
看一個月到期後要把誰踢掉。
第一集就有一點誠意的賣了Ryu的肉，還不錯，畢竟臉對其他都好說
自稱廚藝好，但連最簡單的咖哩都很雷，亂入Match的直播意外獲得好評，
不知道後續會不會有雙人直播之類的(或來個滾床單直播也可以)
二房東Match相較之下，反而我覺得顏質略輸另外兩位，
單飛後想不到好的題材，流量提升不起來，腦筋動到室友身上，
後續同居生活會有什麼新題材也很期待
音樂人Mix，看起來很優，可惜生活習慣差，新酒吧駐唱應徵也成效不彰
原本睡客廳沙發，但太髒亂Match受不了，所以第一集最後
三人共同睡一張大床，太激烈了吧!!!!
預告不知道是幻想情節還是怎樣，Ryu跟Mix裸上身要Match試用，
就能知道之後要跟誰一起住了，太讚了，這劇情我可以。
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