【《金融時報》深度長訪】
今年做過數百外媒訪問,若要說最能反映我思緒和想法的訪問,必然是《金融時報》的這一個,沒有之一。
在排山倒海的訪問裡,這位記者能在短短個半小時裡,刻畫得如此傳神,值得睇。
Joshua Wong plonks himself down on a plastic stool across from me. He is there for barely 10 seconds before he leaps up to greet two former high school classmates in the lunchtime tea house melee. He says hi and bye and then bounds back. Once again I am facing the young man in a black Chinese collared shirt and tan shorts who is proving such a headache for the authorities in Beijing.
So far, it’s been a fairly standard week for Wong. On a break from a globe-trotting, pro-democracy lobbying tour, he was grabbed off the streets of Hong Kong and bundled into a minivan. After being arrested, he appeared on the front pages of the world’s newspapers and was labelled a “traitor” by China’s foreign ministry.
He is very apologetic about being late for lunch.
Little about Wong, the face of Hong Kong’s democracy movement, can be described as ordinary: neither his Nobel Peace Prize nomination, nor his three stints in prison. Five years ago, his face was plastered on the cover of Time magazine; in 2017, he was the subject of a hit Netflix documentary, Joshua: Teenager vs Superpower. And he’s only 23.
We’re sitting inside a Cantonese teahouse in the narrow back streets near Hong Kong’s parliament, where he works for a pro-democracy lawmaker. It’s one of the most socially diverse parts of the city and has been at the heart of five months of unrest, which has turned into a battle for Hong Kong’s future. A few weekends earlier I covered clashes nearby as protesters threw Molotov cocktails at police, who fired back tear gas. Drunk expats looked on, as tourists rushed by dragging suitcases.
The lunch crowd pours into the fast-food joint, milling around as staff set up collapsible tables on the pavement. Construction workers sit side-by-side with men sweating in suits, chopsticks in one hand, phones in the other. I scan the menu: instant noodles with fried egg and luncheon meat, deep fried pork chops, beef brisket with radish. Wong barely glances at it before selecting the hometown fried rice and milk tea, a Hong Kong speciality with British colonial roots, made with black tea and evaporated or condensed milk.
“I always order this,” he beams, “I love this place, it’s the only Cantonese teahouse in the area that does cheap, high-quality milk tea.” I take my cue and settle for the veggie and egg fried rice and a lemon iced tea as the man sitting on the next table reaches over to shake Wong’s hand. Another pats him on the shoulder as he brushes by to pay the bill.
Wong has been a recognisable face in this city since he was 14, when he fought against a proposal from the Hong Kong government to introduce a national education curriculum that would teach that Chinese Communist party rule was “superior” to western-style democracy. The government eventually backed down after more than 100,000 people took to the streets. Two years later, Wong rose to global prominence when he became the poster boy for the Umbrella Movement, in which tens of thousands of students occupied central Hong Kong for 79 days to demand genuine universal suffrage.
That movement ended in failure. Many of its leaders were sent to jail, among them Wong. But the seeds of activism were planted in the generation of Hong Kongers who are now back on the streets, fighting for democracy against the world’s most powerful authoritarian state. The latest turmoil was sparked by a controversial extradition bill but has evolved into demands for true suffrage and a showdown with Beijing over the future of Hong Kong. The unrest in the former British colony, which was handed over to China in 1997, represents the biggest uprising on Chinese soil since the 1989 pro-democracy movement in Beijing. Its climax, of course, was the Tiananmen Square massacre, when hundreds, perhaps thousands, of people were killed.
“We learnt a lot of lessons from the Umbrella Movement: how to deal with conflict between the more moderate and progressive camps, how to be more organic, how to be less hesitant,” says Wong. “Five years ago the pro-democracy camp was far more cautious about seeking international support because they were afraid of pissing off Beijing.”
Wong doesn’t appear to be afraid of irking China. Over the past few months, he has lobbied on behalf of the Hong Kong protesters to governments around the world. In the US, he testified before Congress and urged lawmakers to pass an act in support of the Hong Kong protesters — subsequently approved by the House of Representatives with strong bipartisan support. In Germany, he made headlines when he suggested two baby pandas in the Berlin Zoo be named “Democracy” and “Freedom.” He has been previously barred from entering Malaysia and Thailand due to pressure from Beijing, and a Singaporean social worker was recently convicted and fined for organising an event at which Wong spoke via Skype.
The food arrives almost immediately. I struggle to tell our orders apart. Two mouthfuls into my egg and cabbage fried rice, I regret not ordering the instant noodles with luncheon meat.
In August, a Hong Kong newspaper controlled by the Chinese Communist party published a photo of Julie Eadeh, an American diplomat, meeting pro-democracy student leaders including Wong. The headline accused “foreign forces” of igniting a revolution in Hong Kong. “Beijing says I was trained by the CIA and the US marines and I am a CIA agent. [I find it] quite boring because they have made up these kinds of rumours for seven years [now],” he says, ignoring his incessantly pinging phone.
Another thing that bores him? The media. Although Wong’s messaging is always on point, his appraisal of journalists in response to my questions is piercing and cheeky. “In 15-minute interviews I know journalists just need soundbites that I’ve repeated lots of times before. So I’ll say things like ‘I have no hope [as regards] the regime but I have hope towards the people.’ Then the journalists will say ‘oh that’s so impressive!’ And I’ll say ‘yes, I’m a poet.’ ”
And what about this choice of restaurant? “Well, I knew I couldn’t pick a five-star hotel, even though the Financial Times is paying and I know you can afford it,” he says grinning. “It’s better to do this kind of interview in a Hong Kong-style restaurant. This is the place that I conducted my first interview after I left prison.” Wong has spent around 120 days in prison in total, including on charges of unlawful assembly.
“My fellow prisoners would tell me about how they joined the Umbrella Movement and how they agreed with our beliefs. I think prisoners are more aware of the importance of human rights,” he says, adding that even the prison wardens would share with him how they had joined protests.
“Even the triad members in prison support democracy. They complain how the tax on cigarettes is extremely high and the tax on red wine is extremely low; it just shows how the upper-class elite lives here,” he says, as a waiter strains to hear our conversation. Wong was most recently released from jail in June, the day after the largest protests in the history of Hong Kong, when an estimated 2m people — more than a quarter of the territory’s 7.5m population — took to the streets.
Raised in a deeply religious family, he used to travel to mainland China every two years with his family and church literally to spread the gospel. As with many Hong Kong Chinese who trace their roots to the mainland, he doesn’t know where his ancestral village is. His lasting memory of his trips across the border is of dirty toilets, he tells me, mid-bite. He turned to activism when he realised praying didn’t help much.
“The gift from God is to have independence of mind and critical thinking; to have our own will and to make our own personal judgments. I don’t link my religious beliefs with my political judgments. Even Carrie Lam is Catholic,” he trails off, in a reference to Hong Kong’s leader. Lam has the lowest approval rating of any chief executive in the history of the city, thanks to her botched handling of the crisis.
I ask whether Wong’s father, who is also involved in social activism, has been a big influence. Wrong question.
“The western media loves to frame Joshua Wong joining the fight because of reading the books of Nelson Mandela or Martin Luther King or because of how my parents raised me. In reality, I joined street activism not because of anyone book I read. Why do journalists always assume anyone who strives for a better society has a role model?” He glances down at his pinging phone and draws a breath, before continuing. “Can you really describe my dad as an activist? I support LGBTQ rights,” he says, with a fist pump. His father, Roger Wong, is a well-known anti-gay rights campaigner in Hong Kong.
I notice he has put down his spoon, with half a plate of fried rice untouched. I decide it would be a good idea to redirect our conversation by bonding over phone addictions. Wong, renowned for his laser focus and determination, replies to my emails and messages at all hours and has been described by his friends as “a robot.”
He scrolls through his Gmail, his inbox filled with unread emails, showing me how he categorises interview requests with country tags. His life is almost solely dedicated to activism. “My friends and I used to go to watch movies and play laser tag but now of course we don’t have time to play any more: we face real bullets every weekend.”
The protests — which have seen more than 3,300 people arrested — have been largely leaderless. “Do you ever question your relevance to the movement?” I venture, mid-spoonful of congealed fried rice.
“Never,” he replies with his mouth full. “We have a lot of facilitators in this movement and I’m one of them . . . it’s just like Wikipedia. You don’t know who the contributors are behind a Wikipedia page but you know there’s a lot of collaboration and crowdsourcing. Instead of just having a top-down command, we now have a bottom-up command hub which has allowed the movement to last far longer than Umbrella.
“With greater power comes greater responsibility, so the question is how, through my role, can I express the voices of the frontliners, of the street activism? For example, I defended the action of storming into the Legislative Council on July 1. I know I didn’t storm in myself . . . ” His phone pings twice. Finally he succumbs.
After tapping away for about 30 seconds, Wong launches back into our conversation, sounding genuinely sorry that he wasn’t there on the night when protesters destroyed symbols of the Chinese Communist party and briefly occupied the chamber.
“My job is to be the middleman to express, evaluate and reveal what is going on in the Hong Kong protests when the movement is about being faceless,” he says, adding that his Twitter storm of 29 tweets explaining the July 1 occupation reached at least four million people. I admit that I am overcome with exhaustion just scanning his Twitter account, which has more than 400,000 followers. “Well, that thread was actually written by Jeffrey Ngo from Demosisto,” he say, referring to the political activism group that he heads.
A network of Hong Kong activists studying abroad helps fuel his relentless public persona on social media and in the opinion pages of international newspapers. Within a week of his most recent arrest, he had published op-eds in The Economist, The New York Times, Quartz and the Apple Daily.
I wonder out loud if he ever feels overwhelmed at taking on the Chinese Communist party, a task daunting even for some of the world’s most formidable governments and companies. He peers at me over his wire-framed glasses. “It’s our responsibility; if we don’t do it, who will? At least we are not in Xinjiang or Tibet; we are in Hong Kong,” he says, referring to two regions on Chinese soil on the frontline of Beijing’s drive to develop a high-tech surveillance state. In Xinjiang, at least one million people are being held in internment camps. “Even though we’re directly under the rule of Beijing, we have a layer of protection because we’re recognised as a global city so [Beijing] is more hesitant to act.”
I hear the sound of the wok firing up in the kitchen and ask him the question on everyone’s minds in Hong Kong: what happens next? Like many people who are closely following the extraordinary situation in Hong Kong, he is hesitant to make firm predictions.
“Lots of think-tanks around the world say ‘Oh, we’re China experts. We’re born in western countries but we know how to read Chinese so we’re familiar with Chinese politics.’ They predicted the Communist party would collapse after the Tiananmen Square massacre and they’ve kept predicting this over the past three decades but hey, now it’s 2019 and we’re still under the rule of Beijing, ha ha,” he grins.
While we are prophesying, does Wong ever think he might become chief executive one day? “No local journalist in Hong Kong would really ask this question,” he admonishes. As our lunch has progressed, he has become bolder in dissecting my interview technique. The territory’s chief executive is currently selected by a group of 1,200, mostly Beijing loyalists, and he doubts the Chinese Communist party would ever allow him to run. A few weeks after we meet he announces his candidacy in the upcoming district council elections. He was eventually the only candidate disqualified from running — an order that, after our lunch, he tweeted had come from Beijing and was “clearly politically driven”.
We turn to the more ordinary stuff of 23-year-olds’ lives, as Wong slurps the remainder of his milk tea. “Before being jailed, the thing I was most worried about was that I wouldn’t be able to watch Avengers: Endgame,” he says.
“Luckily, it came out around early May so I watched it two weeks before I was locked up in prison.” He has already quoted Spider-Man twice during our lunch. I am unsurprised when Wong picks him as his favourite character.
“I think he’s more . . . ” He pauses, one of the few times in the interview. “Compared to having an unlimited superpower or unlimited power or unlimited talent just like Superman, I think Spider-Man is more human.” With that, our friendly neighbourhood activist dashes off to his next interview.
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dates a girl who travels. 和一個旅行女孩約會吧。(請自行尋找相中亮點 XD) 【一舊雲 旅行者雜貨店】
Date a girl who travels. 和一個旅行女孩約會吧!
Date a girl who travels.
Date a girl who would rather save up for out of town trips or day trips than buy new shoes or clothes. She may not look like a fashion plate, but behind that tanned and freckled face from all the days out in the sun, lies a mind that can take you places and an open heart that will take you for what you are, not for what you can be.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。這個女孩,寧願把錢存下來當作旅行基金,也不會花在無謂的新衣服。她看起來可能不是個時尚辣妹,但在那張久經日曬的小麥色臉龐後,藏著一顆能帶你去任何地方,並且能欣賞你最真實個性的一顆心。
Date a girl who travels.
You’ll recognize her by the backpack she always carries. She won’t be carrying a dainty handbag; where will she put her travel journal, her pens, and the LED flashlight that’s always attached to her bag’s zipper? In a small purse, how can she bring the small coil of travel string, the wet tissues, the box of cracker, and the bottle of water she’s always ready with, just in case something happens and she can’t go home yet? Yes, a girl who travels knows that anytime, anything can happen and she just has to be prepared with it. Nothing takes her by surprise; she takes everything with equanimity, knowing that such things are always a part of life. She’s reliable and dependable, traits that she’s learned while on the road.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。你可以一眼就從那永不離身的背包認出她。並非一個無法裝載旅行日誌、筆、手電筒的精緻小提包,一個小包包怎麼能裝下旅行繩、溼毛巾、乾糧、和一瓶緊急備用的水呢?沒錯,一個旅行女孩知道隨時都有可能發生無法預料的事,所以她會永遠保持在準備好的狀態。沒有什麼事能嚇到她,她永遠可以泰然處之從容面對,知道這就是人生。她是值得信賴依靠的,這是她從旅途中學到的事。
You’ll also recognize a girl who travels by the fact that she’s always amazed at the world around her, no matter if she’s in her home town or in a place that’s totally new. She sees beauty all around her, not just the ones featured in travel guides or shown in postcards. A girl who travels has developed a deeper appreciation for life. She won’t judge you, or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy, and she will appreciate all the more if you won’t pretend to be who you’re not.
你也可以從旅行女孩那不管是在家鄉或是一個陌生城鎮,卻總能對她周遭事物充滿興趣的特質認出她。她可以發覺各式美麗事物,而不只是旅行指南或明信片上的熱門景點。一個旅行女孩會對生命由衷的欣賞,她不會武斷地評論你,也不會逼你做不情願的事。她清楚的知道自我肯定及認同的重要,如果你不矯揉造作,她對你加倍青睞。你可以對一個旅行女孩說謊,犯錯也沒有關係,你可以做最真實的自己。別擔心,她在旅途中碰過更糟的事,而且對變化莫測的人性也有深刻的認識。
Date a girl who travels, because when you’re with her, you’ll realize that even though she’s napped at a temple in Angkor Wat, went boating down the Mekong Delta, ran by the streets of Saigon, or went skinny-dipping in the caves in the Philippines , she still retains that humility that is the mark of a real traveler. She knows she’s been to a lot of places, but she’s humbled by the fact that the world is still a big place and she’s only seen a small part of it. Seeing this in her can make you feel all right with yourself too; there’s no need for you to do more, to be more. What you are is enough.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。和她在一起你會發現,無論她在吳哥窟小憩,在湄公河划船,在西貢的街上奔跑,或是在菲律賓的洞穴裸泳,她都謹記著「謙遜」才是旅人最重要的特質。她知道她去過很多地方,但她很謙虛地了解這世界很大,自己走過的地方只是一小部份。這項特質讓你也覺得很自在,你不需要虛假誇大,只需要做你自己。
When you meet a girl who travels, ask her where she’s been and what she’s going to do next. She will appreciate your interest, and if you’re lucky, she may even invite you to join her. When she does, do. Nothing bonds people better than traveling. On your trips, you will both see each other’s best and worst characteristics, and you can then decide whether she’s worth fighting for.
當你認識一個旅行女孩,問問她去過哪裡、下一個旅行地點是哪裡,她會很欣賞你的用心。夠幸運的話,說不定她還會約你結伴同行。如果她開口,就跟她一起去吧。沒有一件事能比旅行更能拉近人與人之間的關係,在旅程中,你們會發現彼此的優點和缺點,你也可以因此決定她是不是個值得的對象。
It’s easy enough to date a girl who travels. She won’t want expensive gifts; you can buy her (or both of you) cheap tickets to Thailand for the weekend, and she’ll be more than happy to take you to the longest wooden bridge in the country. You don’t even have to go overseas; you can take her out on day trips, caving or hiking, or treat her to a full body massage.
You can also buy her the little things that she keeps forgetting to buy for herself; that carabiner that will attach her backpack to her seat so that she will feel easier about sleeping on her bus trip, or a backpack cover, a small alarm clock, a money belt, or maybe another sarong that will replace the one she lost in China.
和一個旅行女孩約會很簡單。她不渴求昂貴的禮物,你可以買張飛往泰國渡週末的廉價機票給她或是來一趟雙人之旅,她會帶你去看世界上最長的木橋;你們甚至不用出國,你可以帶她去個洞穴探險或爬山的一日小旅行,或是讓她享受一套全身按摩。你也可以送她一些她總是忘記買的小東西。那條能綁住她的背包和座椅的鍊條,讓她能在巴士旅途中睡個好覺;一個背包套、小鬧鐘、可以藏錢的腰帶、或是一條新沙龍來代替她在中國遺失那條。
She won’t mind if you get lost on your way to a date. She knows that oftentimes, the journey is more important than the destination. She will help you see the lighter side of things. She’ll walk along with you, not behind you, pointing out the interesting bits of things you’ll see on the way. Before long, you’ll realize that yes, the journey has been more memorable than the destination that you’ve planned to take her to.
一個旅行女孩不介意你約會時迷路,她知道多數時候旅行的過程比結果更重要。她會讓看到事情的光明面,走在你身旁而不是你後方,為你指出一路上將看到的趣事。不用多久你就會真的了解,和她一起尋找的過程其實比你要帶她去的目的地更讓你記憶深刻。
Is a girl who travels worth it? Yes, she is. So when you find her, keep her. Don’t lose her with your insecurities and doubts. Because when she says she loves you, she really does. After all, she’s seen so many things, met so many people, and if she had chosen you, better grab that opportunity and thank the gods that you were lucky enough she’s chosen you and not that bloke she met while watching the sun rise in Angkor Wat, or while whitewater rafting in the Padas Gorge in Sabah. If she says she loves you, she must have seen something in you, something that can always call her back from her travels, something that can anchor her to the world in the way that she wants to after weeks and months of being on the road.
一個旅行女孩值得你追求嗎?是的,她值得。所以當你碰上她時,請好好珍惜她。不要因為你的不安全感或懷疑而放手,因為當她說她愛你,那絕對千真萬確。畢竟她看過那麼多各式事物,認識了那麼多不同的人;如果她選擇了你,請好好把握這個機會,並感謝老天她選擇的是你,而不是那個她在吳哥窟並肩看夕陽的男孩,或她在沙巴巴達士泛舟的同伴。如果她說她愛你,表示她一定有發現你的某些特別之處;一些能讓她回憶起過去旅行的小細節,一個能讓她在四處漂蕩好幾個月後可以停泊的港灣。
Date a girl who travels. Make her feel safe, warm, and secure. Make her believe that no matter where she goes, and however long she’s gone, you’ll always be there for her, the one that she can call home.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。給她安心和溫暖,讓她相信無論她去到哪裡,或是離開了多久,你都會在那個她能當作「家」的地方等待她。
Find a girl who travels. Date her, love her, and marry her, and your world will never be the same again.
找一個旅行女孩,和她約會,真愛她,讓她成為你的妻子。你的世界,將會因此而不同。
《《中文版譯自 Reddy Ting Ho。原文載自 Date A Girl Who Travels.》》
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和一個旅行女孩約會吧!
Date a girl who travels. 和一個旅行女孩約會吧!
Date a girl who travels.
Date a girl who would rather save up for out of town trips or day trips than buy new shoes or clothes. She may not look like a fashion plate, but behind that tanned and freckled face from all the days out in the sun, lies a mind that can take you places and an open heart that will take you for what you are, not for what you can be.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。這個女孩,寧願把錢存下來當作旅行基金,也不會花在無謂的新衣服。她看起來可能不是個時尚辣妹,但在那張久經日曬的小麥色臉龐後,藏著一顆能帶你去任何地方,並且能欣賞你最真實個性的一顆心。
Date a girl who travels.
You’ll recognize her by the backpack she always carries. She won’t be carrying a dainty handbag; where will she put her travel journal, her pens, and the LED flashlight that’s always attached to her bag’s zipper? In a small purse, how can she bring the small coil of travel string, the wet tissues, the box of cracker, and the bottle of water she’s always ready with, just in case something happens and she can’t go home yet? Yes, a girl who travels knows that anytime, anything can happen and she just has to be prepared with it. Nothing takes her by surprise; she takes everything with equanimity, knowing that such things are always a part of life. She’s reliable and dependable, traits that she’s learned while on the road.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。你可以一眼就從那永不離身的背包認出她。並非一個無法裝載旅行日誌、筆、手電筒的精緻小提包,一個小包包怎麼能裝下旅行繩、溼毛巾、乾糧、和一瓶緊急備用的水呢?沒錯,一個旅行女孩知道隨時都有可能發生無法預料的事,所以她會永遠保持在準備好的狀態。沒有什麼事能嚇到她,她永遠可以泰然處之從容面對,知道這就是人生。她是值得信賴依靠的,這是她從旅途中學到的事。
You’ll also recognize a girl who travels by the fact that she’s always amazed at the world around her, no matter if she’s in her home town or in a place that’s totally new. She sees beauty all around her, not just the ones featured in travel guides or shown in postcards. A girl who travels has developed a deeper appreciation for life. She won’t judge you, or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy, and she will appreciate all the more if you won’t pretend to be who you’re not.
你也可以從旅行女孩那不管是在家鄉或是一個陌生城鎮,卻總能對她周遭事物充滿興趣的特質認出她。她可以發覺各式美麗事物,而不只是旅行指南或明信片上的熱門景點。一個旅行女孩會對生命由衷的欣賞,她不會武斷地評論你,也不會逼你做不情願的事。她清楚的知道自我肯定及認同的重要,如果你不矯揉造作,她對你加倍青睞。你可以對一個旅行女孩說謊,犯錯也沒有關係,你可以做最真實的自己。別擔心,她在旅途中碰過更糟的事,而且對變化莫測的人性也有深刻的認識。
Date a girl who travels, because when you’re with her, you’ll realize that even though she’s napped at a temple in Angkor Wat, went boating down the Mekong Delta, ran by the streets of Saigon, or went skinny-dipping in the caves in the Philippines , she still retains that humility that is the mark of a real traveler. She knows she’s been to a lot of places, but she’s humbled by the fact that the world is still a big place and she’s only seen a small part of it. Seeing this in her can make you feel all right with yourself too; there’s no need for you to do more, to be more. What you are is enough.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。和她在一起你會發現,無論她在吳哥窟小憩,在湄公河划船,在西貢的街上奔跑,或是在菲律賓的洞穴裸泳,她都謹記著「謙遜」才是旅人最重要的特質。她知道她去過很多地方,但她很謙虛地了解這世界很大,自己走過的地方只是一小部份。這項特質讓你也覺得很自在,你不需要虛假誇大,只需要做你自己。
When you meet a girl who travels, ask her where she’s been and what she’s going to do next. She will appreciate your interest, and if you’re lucky, she may even invite you to join her. When she does, do. Nothing bonds people better than traveling. On your trips, you will both see each other’s best and worst characteristics, and you can then decide whether she’s worth fighting for.
當你認識一個旅行女孩,問問她去過哪裡、下一個旅行地點是哪裡,她會很欣賞你的用心。夠幸運的話,說不定她還會約你結伴同行。如果她開口,就跟她一起去吧。沒有一件事能比旅行更能拉近人與人之間的關係,在旅程中,你們會發現彼此的優點和缺點,你也可以因此決定她是不是個值得的對象。
It’s easy enough to date a girl who travels. She won’t want expensive gifts; you can buy her (or both of you) cheap tickets to Thailand for the weekend, and she’ll be more than happy to take you to the longest wooden bridge in the country. You don’t even have to go overseas; you can take her out on day trips, caving or hiking, or treat her to a full body massage.
You can also buy her the little things that she keeps forgetting to buy for herself; that carabiner that will attach her backpack to her seat so that she will feel easier about sleeping on her bus trip, or a backpack cover, a small alarm clock, a money belt, or maybe another sarong that will replace the one she lost in China.
和一個旅行女孩約會很簡單。她不渴求昂貴的禮物,你可以買張飛往泰國渡週末的廉價機票給她或是來一趟雙人之旅,她會帶你去看世界上最長的木橋;你們甚至不用出國,你可以帶她去個洞穴探險或爬山的一日小旅行,或是讓她享受一套全身按摩。你也可以送她一些她總是忘記買的小東西。那條能綁住她的背包和座椅的鍊條,讓她能在巴士旅途中睡個好覺;一個背包套、小鬧鐘、可以藏錢的腰帶、或是一條新沙龍來代替她在中國遺失那條。
She won’t mind if you get lost on your way to a date. She knows that oftentimes, the journey is more important than the destination. She will help you see the lighter side of things. She’ll walk along with you, not behind you, pointing out the interesting bits of things you’ll see on the way. Before long, you’ll realize that yes, the journey has been more memorable than the destination that you’ve planned to take her to.
一個旅行女孩不介意你約會時迷路,她知道多數時候旅行的過程比結果更重要。她會讓看到事情的光明面,走在你身旁而不是你後方,為你指出一路上將看到的趣事。不用多久你就會真的了解,和她一起尋找的過程其實比你要帶她去的目的地更讓你記憶深刻。
Is a girl who travels worth it? Yes, she is. So when you find her, keep her. Don’t lose her with your insecurities and doubts. Because when she says she loves you, she really does. After all, she’s seen so many things, met so many people, and if she had chosen you, better grab that opportunity and thank the gods that you were lucky enough she’s chosen you and not that bloke she met while watching the sun rise in Angkor Wat, or while whitewater rafting in the Padas Gorge in Sabah. If she says she loves you, she must have seen something in you, something that can always call her back from her travels, something that can anchor her to the world in the way that she wants to after weeks and months of being on the road.
一個旅行女孩值得你追求嗎?是的,她值得。所以當你碰上她時,請好好珍惜她。不要因為你的不安全感或懷疑而放手,因為當她說她愛你,那絕對千真萬確。畢竟她看過那麼多各式事物,認識了那麼多不同的人;如果她選擇了你,請好好把握這個機會,並感謝老天她選擇的是你,而不是那個她在吳哥窟並肩看夕陽的男孩,或她在沙巴巴達士泛舟的同伴。如果她說她愛你,表示她一定有發現你的某些特別之處;一些能讓她回憶起過去旅行的小細節,一個能讓她在四處漂蕩好幾個月後可以停泊的港灣。
Date a girl who travels. Make her feel safe, warm, and secure. Make her believe that no matter where she goes, and however long she’s gone, you’ll always be there for her, the one that she can call home.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。給她安心和溫暖,讓她相信無論她去到哪裡,或是離開了多久,你都會在那個她能當作「家」的地方等待她。
Find a girl who travels. Date her, love her, and marry her, and your world will never be the same again.
找一個旅行女孩,和她約會,真愛她,讓她成為你的妻子。你的世界,將會因此而不同。
《《中文版譯自 Reddy Ting Ho。原文載自 Date A Girl Who Travels.》》
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