💌 Dear Adam,
After more than 2 years, I finally gathered enough strength to go back to our favourite place. I thought I was ready until we arrived there and I couldn’t even open the door to step my foot down from the car. As I peeped around from the car window, our whole memory together rolled back and hit me like a wave of tsunami. I quickly looked at Mr Dad’s face and thank God he understood my signal right away. He took the kids down and left me alone in the car.
There I was, at our favourite place, stuck in the car, my legs felt like jelly, my hands were icy cold in the late summer heat, my heart was pumping hard, my whole body was trembling like a volcanic mountain ready to vomit its lava…couldn’t make a move, couldn’t say a word! And not long after the kids disappeared from my sight…my tears ran down like a heavy rain. I cried and cried and cried.
After almost 2 hours, the kids walked back to the car with wide smiles on each of their faces. I was stunned looking at them. I spotted a sign of strength in them. Yes, they are stronger than me. They were so happy. They missed the place so much. They talked about our memories together. They took a walk down the memory lane walking back the trail that we last took together when you were here. And they already planned to come back again soon to create more memories at our favourite place.
And I’m glad. Relief. I found my strength back in them. I know this time I failed to get myself out there. But at least I’ve made the first move. InshaAllah next time I believe that I will be stronger to step down and be ready to create more memories with the kids at our favourite place. We will definitely be talking about you and how much we are still loving you…
Missing you,
Mrs Mom - @adamdidam’s second sister
#wisemomsays
#ALetterToMyBrotherInHeaven 💌
#SundayWithAdam 💛
#GriefAwareness
同時也有4部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過3萬的網紅黃小琥官方專屬頻道 Tiger's Official Channel,也在其Youtube影片中提到,有沒有一種愛,真的抵達永遠? 有沒有一種愛,真的時時刻刻在你左右? 黃小琥刻進靈魂的真愛,是歌唱,是音樂 也是陪伴你我無數時刻的特別存在 喜怒哀樂有音樂相伴的那些時刻 都讓我們心中留下難以忘懷的獨特感受 音樂悄悄貫穿我們每個人的人生 也實實穿透黃小琥的每時每刻 黃小琥:「我幫許多朋友們唱出了...
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【一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前,收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時,開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心,因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年,特地寫了封感謝函給我,真有心!
心酸,因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情,我完完全全明白。
他的經歷,是我的曾經。我當初也是很難,很久才能走出來。
有一回,我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時,她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整,她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半,我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了,冷到她,便問她要不要披巾。
她說,是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你,也沒對你嚴厲,你為何突然焦慮?」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫,我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用,同學們都前進了,只有我現在什麼都不是,亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張,萬一我一直都是這樣,怎麼辦?」
說著,她眼眶一紅,眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀!是我的樣子長得很催淚,還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心?怎麼客人,不分男女老少,東南西北,看到我好像都很容易哭?
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以,我不是來了嗎?你來找我,就是要問個明路,而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦!你看你的筆記寫得多工整,多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊!我今天的工作,就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握,也不會接你這份差事。我接了,就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做,一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回,一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時,這位媽媽點頭認同,然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎?太太哭成淚人,你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊?
「我是個沒有用的母親,很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他,可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做,我就會對他發脾氣,說狠話,過後我又後悔。我忍下來,可是後來還是會一樣!」
我沒打斷她,等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後,我柔柔的說:「我來啦!我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我,就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行,會去找辦法,就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊!」
我把紙巾遞給她,再說:「不要哭了,要不然,別人看了以為是我不要借你錢,才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時,我們都會以外在所擁有的,來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等,到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有,而偏偏是我們最想要的,我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀,也離不開那幾點。
久而久之,我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值,甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛,六道眾生皆有佛性,只因一時的迷,因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性,我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量,等著我們遇到明師後,去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量,就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水,我們永遠不會想要出離,誤把人間當極樂,所以一定要有苦,我們才會意識到,為什麼我們會在這鬼地方?要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂?
反過來,我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折,因為從這些苦中,我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排,如此你才會有出離心,返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
my dear i will be there soon 在 A Happy Mum Facebook 的精選貼文
It's hard to believe that my firstborn will be sitting for her PSLE papers in a couple of months' time. In fact, her oral exams begin this week. Yup, time flies!
I wish I had more one-on-one time to spend on revision with her but given how the baby keeps me busy all the time, it is really tough. Besides, some of the P6 concepts, especially Science, are too hard for me to comprehend or teach already. That means the girl has learnt to become more independent in her studies, which might not be a bad thing, right?
While we are still on the tuition-free route, we take the opportunity to learn whenever we can and for now, e-learning platforms which enable us to learn while staying home is something we would advocate. We have heard good reviews about Geniebook, an online suite of personalised learning innovations powered by Artificial Intelligence, and were excited to try out their 2-weeks GenieClass trial.
The girl attended some of the live online classes - GenieClass, including English, Math and Science, and enjoyed them thoroughly. Besides helping to recap some of the topics she has learnt in school, she also participated in quizzes and class chats which she found to be interesting and helpful.
We got to see and have a feel of how the teachers conducted these online classes and they were generally engaging and enthusiastic, which made the lessons fun and worth looking forward to.
In addition to GenieClass, Geniebook subscribers will soon get to use GenieAsk, which is a real-time teacher chat and a convenient way for students to ask questions they may have from school. Then there is the product they’re most famous for, their GenieSmart. These are AI personalised worksheets which draw from a library of over 150,000 questions aligned to MOE’s syllabus to identify academic strengths and weaknesses. And what I love as a parent most, you’ll have access to real-time progress reports of how your child is doing!
While PSLE might be a major milestone for her, instead of being stressed out by exams, I earnestly hope she will always find joy in learning. We've got this, dear Angel!
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my dear i will be there soon 在 黃小琥官方專屬頻道 Tiger's Official Channel Youtube 的最佳解答
有沒有一種愛,真的抵達永遠?
有沒有一種愛,真的時時刻刻在你左右?
黃小琥刻進靈魂的真愛,是歌唱,是音樂
也是陪伴你我無數時刻的特別存在
喜怒哀樂有音樂相伴的那些時刻
都讓我們心中留下難以忘懷的獨特感受
音樂悄悄貫穿我們每個人的人生
也實實穿透黃小琥的每時每刻
黃小琥:「我幫許多朋友們唱出了他們的愛情、友情、親情,也努力做到每次都讓大家開心,但常常遺憾著,沒有一首歌,能說清楚、講明白自己一路的音樂歷程,或是寫出我是爲什麼而唱,而且一唱就是一輩子!很不經意的情況下,巧妙的緣份,I sing出現了,我看著那淺顯易懂的英文詞,控制不住突如其來的眼淚,這真的是一首我很愛的歌曲。」
有狂妄也有收斂
有直率也有哽噎
有巧合也有無比堅持
因為是刻進靈魂的深愛
讓整首歌曲有一種難以言喻的獨特感受
黃小琥2020最新至愛單曲「ISing」
#黃小琥
#ISing
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■ I Sing
作詞/作曲:李王若涵
I sing when sun is shining through.
I sing when love is shared by two
I sing when summer turns to fall,
when teardrops frozen into snow.
There is a voice that heals your heart.
There is a hand that helps you through.
Whenever spirit hides its way, I rise my head and say.
It's gonna be okay.
Somehow I'll find my way.
And I'll sing.
I sing for every happiness in me
I sing for every drifter in the world.
I sing for you, the one I love the most.
I will rise above to see the morning glory and I'll sing.
I sing the song that's coming from my heart.
I'll touch the heart when people sad and down.
The midnight soon will turn into the dawn.
The voice of love is loud and clear.
Because I sing
I sing a song for you and me.
The words are written truthfully.
It says I love you so my dear.
It's for eternity.
Everything is okay.
I finally find my way.
Because I sing
I sing.
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編曲:秦四風 Sedar Chin
製作:李正帆 Lee Cheng Fan
混音:林英強 Johnson Lin
MUSICIANS
Band:
Drums:李彥超 Li Yan Chao
Bass:趙浩成 Zhao Hao Cheng
Guitar:熊林 Xiong Lin
Keyboards:秦四風 Sedar Chin
Flute:程曉華 Cheng Xiao Hua
Strings:
國際首席愛樂樂團(International Master Philharmonic Orchestra)
樂團總監:李朋 Li Peng
1st Violin:龐闊Pang Kuo 崔方晗 Cui Fang Han 李曦 Li Xi 張浩 Zhang Hao
2nd Violin:閻紅 Yan Hong 倪冰雪 Ni Bing Xue 王睿Wang Rui
秦健 Chin Jian
Viola:付微Fu Wei 方振華Fang Zhen Hua 王宇沛Wang Yu Pei
Cello:張平Zhang Ping 郎瑩 Lang Ying
RECORDING
鼓
錄音室:55TEC(Beijing)
錄音工程師:李游 Li You
助理工程師:邢銅 Xing Tong
貝斯,吉他與鍵盤
錄音室:SEDAR Studio(Beijing)
錄音師:趙浩成Zhao Hao Cheng
熊林Xiong Lin
秦四風Sedar Chin
絃樂與長笛
錄音室:北京唱片廠錄音棚
錄音工程師:李岳松Li Yue Song
助理工程師:劉璆Liu Qiu
全部樂器錄音監製:秦四風 Sedar Chin
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■ 更多黃小琥相關資訊:
黃小琥 新浪微博:http://tw.weibo.com/huangxiaohu
黃小琥 官方臉書:https://www.facebook.com/superTigerHuang
華納官方 Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/WarnerMusicTaiwan
華納音樂 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/warnermusictw/
華納音樂 官方 LINE:http://nav.cx/3sTa2ck
華納音樂 官方 TikTok:http://vt.tiktok.com/JPWMLQ/

my dear i will be there soon 在 Kim Chi Sun Youtube 的最佳貼文
#KimChiSun #ToriKelly #DearNoOne #Charles #JMGMelancholy
Tori Kelly - Dear No One | CHARLES x Kim Chi Sun Cover #whenkimsings
I've been loving this song since 2012, it's great to sing it with someone else too! Hope you like it ;) This was back in March, i just played it again, ignored all the mistakes in harmonizing and posting it here! Why not right =]
I feel like Tori Kelly reads my insta posts or the thoughts in my mind back in 2012, 2013.. I had no hope for romantic love back then! Like, i had nothing to prove, I just knew with myself so clear that I wouldn't meet my 'the one' any soon lool, and i was ok with it, tho everyone was telling me to jump into a relationship with whoever that showed their little interest in me, otherwise i would 'lose my sense'.. Nevermind, that was longgggg timeeee ago haha, will write a long essay on that one day, maybe.
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Lyrics:
I like being independent
Not so much of an investment
No one to tell me what to do
I like being by myself
Don't gotta entertain anybody else
No one to answer to.
But sometimes I just want somebody to hold
Someone to give me their jacket when it's cold
Got that young love even when we're old
Yeah, sometimes I want someone to grab my hand
Pick me up, pull me close, be my man
I will love you 'til the end
So if you're out there I swear to be good to you
But I'm done lookin' for my future someone
'Cause when the time is right you'll be here,
But for now, dear No One,
This is your love song
Ooh, oh, oh
I don't really like big crowds
I tend to shut people out
I like my space, yeah
But I'd love to have a soul mate
And God'll give him to me someday
And I know it'll be worth the wait,
Oh
So if you're out there I swear to be good to you
But I'm done lookin', I'm done lookin' for my future someone
'Cause when the time is right you'll be here,
But for now, dear No One
Dear Nobody
This is your love song
Ooh, ooh
Sometimes I just want somebody to hold
Someone to give me their jacket when it's cold
Got that young love even when we're old
Yeah, sometimes I want someone to grab my hand
Pick me up, pull me close, be my man
I will love you 'til the end
So if you're out there I swear to be good to you
But I'm done lookin', I'm done lookin' for my future someone
'Cause when the time is right you'll be here,
But for now, dear No One, dear Nobody
This is your love song
This is your love song
Dear No One, no need to be searchin', no
Dear No One.
Dear No One.
Dear No One, this is your love song
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my dear i will be there soon 在 BEAUTYQQ Youtube 的最佳貼文
I am 39 , going on 40.
Queenie, it's time to think.
Better travel more.
Be happy , be cheerful.
Your clock is ticking fast....
I am 39 , going on 40.
Bust line wil drop pretty soon.
Beauty clinics,
Plastic surgeons,
will offer me needles and knives ..LOL
I am 39 , going on 40.
I know what I want.
People might judge me or dislike me.
Why should I care ? :)
Dear all,
I'm still in London.
Will post more footages for u later :)
Music:
Miss Shanghai ----
Shanghai Restoration Project
An Exciting news which will bring us closer than ever!
I have been invited by BOOSST.com to become the BOOSST Hong Kong Ambassadress J. This great news is a milestone for me and for us!
Being BOOSST Ambassadress mean so much! Not only to me but also to us!!
After sharing with you my lifestyle tips and experience, I am now able to make you also experience it and that with the launch in HK of BOOSST DEAL.
For You, I will test and review what Hong Kong have the best to offer! And ........ SHARE it with you all, by offering you the best lifestyle DEAL with the support of BOOSST.com
Boosst.com is a personal lifestyle portal that focuses in assisting you and I, in reaching a greater lifestyle using BOOSST DEAL and plan life more easy.
Together we have the power of the people, BOOSST.com is negotiating the best of the best for US!
BOOSST and I, will be looking for the best to do, to experience and to discover in Hong Kong J and we will make you have it! with a great DEAL.
Before the official Launch of HK BOOSST DEAL in March, I invite you to join me on BOOSST facebook fan group.
The more people join Me there, more power we have and best the deals will be J
Let me know what you are looking for? Any latest product or place you like to try or to go? I will try it for you and BOOSST will get the best Deal for us ;)
It 's Because we are all together, I will bring you what the best Brands have to offer J so lets get the people power together in HK J
See you very very soon and see you on BOOSST
Take care
With much love ,
Queenie
xoxoxo

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