#关于BLW
常常都会有妈妈来问我一些关于BLW的问题
其中我最常遇到的
是 "好不容易说服保姆进行BLW"
每次看见这个句子 就让我心惊胆颤
因为很多时候我们做足了功课
意外发生时都可能手足无措
更何况是没有做功课的保姆
很多长辈有错误的观念
例如说Gag的时候大力拍背 用手指抠食物等
这些都是不正确的方式
孩子开始辅食品的第一步
不管是TW喂食粥泥或者BLW自主离乳都好
父母最先应该学的不是变化辅食
而是 【哈姆立克急救法】
请参考 👉https://youtu.be/Xpemid6Mla8
不要觉得喂食粥泥就没有Choke的风险
花生粥里的花生 萝卜丁 马铃薯丁 香蕉 苹果
这些都是高风险 Choke 的食材
TW的宝宝也需要过度 从粥水到固体 的时期
所以也一定要学会急救措施才可以
想要进行BLW 更加一定要先学会急救
这是为了预防 Choke 的发生
可以第一时间进行急救
我们无法把意外发生的几率降为0
但是我们可以降低意外发生的几率
如果你真的是聘请保姆照顾孩子
而保姆在这之前没有任何BLW的知识的话
我真心的建议大家不要为了 BLW 这个名词而执着
就让保姆喂食 父母回家后在进行 FF (Finger Food)
让孩子尽早过度从粥水到固体的阶段即可
我相信每个父母的目标是一致的
就是让孩子可以尽快学会自己吃饭而已
而不是为了让孩子挂着BLW的名义
若干年后孩子上学了
也不会有人在意你的宝贝是BLW还是TW的
所以千万不要为了名义而执着冒险
不管是 BLW 还是 TW+FF
大家的终点都一样
就是早一点和迟一点到达的差别而已
早一点到达没有奖金
迟一点到达没有惩罚
最多就是多抹几个月的地板
别把孩子的生命搭进这个莫名其妙的比赛里
拿孩子的生命赌一个万一
成功了只赢得一个BLW的名义
但是输了会让你后悔一生
Yesterday we experienced every parents worst nightmare!!!!
While it’s still raw, I need to share my story to everyone with babies/children just so people know how quickly a child can choke & stop breathing etc in a matter of seconds/minutes.
Theo nearly died yesterday 😭 because he choked on some food (uk guideline correctly sized finger foods of egg mayo sandwich soldiers & soft melon sticks)
He has eaten this so many times before. Melon & anything on bread are some of his favourite foods.
The reason I am telling you is because most of you know how Theo is such an incredible eater & I always had the attitude “It will never happen to me because I’m so careful” I Always sit with him when he eats, I always chopped his foods into “non choking small sizes”.
I am always so careful, Yet it still happened & We nearly lost our baby.
I was sat next to him while he was eating in his high chair when i accidentally kicked my coffee over. (I think at that moment I must have startled him while he had food in his mouth 😭)
You know what it’s like when a drink spills, you naturally jump out your seat & leg it to the kitchen for some kitchen roll or tea towels etc. It took me seconds to run to the kitchen & back.
I chucked down 5 squares of kitchen roll & that’s all it took time wise. I took my eyes off him for Seconds!!!!!
I heard a muffled sound, I looked over at Theo to find him slumped to the side of his high chair, blue lips & eyes rolled to the back of his head, having a seizure.
Some people don’t know the difference between gagging & choking and think they need to listen for a cough to know their baby is chocking.
THERE WAS NO COUGH TO WARN ME!!!!
Because there was absolutely no air going in or out!!!!
He stopped breathing & his whole body went so blue & lifeless he looked dead 😭 An image that just keeps flashing back over & over in my head, that feeling of complete terror as my heart was ripping into a million pieces as I thought I was going to have to say goodbye to the most precious little soul in my life 💔 a moment I’m not sure I will ever get over.
If it wasn’t for the fact me & Jamie knew first aid & knew to keep going with back blows & chest thrusts until he could breathe . And most importantly called for an ambulance immediately at the start, while I was doing the back blows etc, Jamie was on the phone. I think one more minute & he would have died 😭
The moment I felt his little body give up, followed by blood coming out his mouth was the moment we both completely lost our shit with panic. I think the whole road could hear our desperate screams. Reality kicked in that we could lose him, because nothing was working.
But amazingly we managed to get him back after jamie blew a hard, quick breath into his mouth, that must have dislodged whatever it was.
HE TOOK HIS FIRST BREATH 🙌🏽 after what felt like forever trying to stop him choking. After a few more breaths, He came round all disoriented at first & just wanted to cuddle. Phew....
But Panic wasn’t over 😫 5 minutes later he had another seizure I’m guessing from lack of oxygen. (Both thinking here we go again, screaming at the operator on the phone, begging her to help us)
I had to Put him into the recovery position on the floor & had to sit next to him helplessly while he went in & out on consciousness until the ambulance arrived with some oxygen.
We were taken to hospital & after lots of checks he was so incredibly brave & strong he was sent home later that same night.
The photo is of him totally exhausted having a lovely snooze in daddy’s arms, having his final check before we went home.💙
This isn’t an attention message in any way, because he is absolutely fine now!
it’s purely to make people aware of how easily something like this can happen.
And please please please do not have that same attitude I did that “it won’t happend to me because I’m so careful”
It doesn’t matter how careful you are, accidents still happen & this happened in a matter of seconds!!!!
If your baby was to choke & stop breathing would you honestly hand on heart know what to do???
Because if you don’t....
please take 10mins of your time to read the NHS advice for choking page.
• https://www.nhs.uk/…/pregnancy-and-ba…/helping-choking-baby/
And the short YouTube clips of what to do when a baby/child chokes including CPR
• https://youtu.be/I3pvuYMcPg4
• https://youtu.be/aXaLc-AwX2g
I can honestly say through all the panic & upset that our slight memory of first aid helped us save our baby’s life.
Our story could have been so different but
We feel so incredibly lucky that he is still alive! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
There must have been a guardian angel watching over us yesterday 💕😇
Please feel free to share this story to all your baby mumma friends, I’ll make it public so people can
***EDIT*** also ask your friends and family that look after your little ones the exact same question above.... what would you do?
If they can’t answer, get them to watch the videos too 😊
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從家人客人惹爭議的鰻魚飯
到今天臉友轉貼癌末小童的影像記事
百感交集的現在 心情莫名低落
中午用餐時間點開記事文章後
盈眶的眼淚沒停過
上班空檔想起一陣鼻酸
只想快點下班直奔回家
抱抱我的寶貝
因為看到別人痛徹心扉的失去
才知道自己理所當然擁有的一切 何等珍貴
活在同一個時空下 有緣做親人的每分秒
好好珍惜都來不及了
誰還計較是家人還是客人
沒人天生就是好父母
陪著孩子成長的一路上都是修行
把教養方式放到網路上卻被公審
應該也是對方始料未及的
相信有智慧的大家有辨別是非的能力
我們能做的不是傳播錯誤示範的影片
而是想想自己是不是也在無意中傷害過孩子
然後給孩子一個緊緊的擁抱
告訴他 你真的好愛他
#愛咪碎碎念
#育兒點滴
Two months. Two months since I've held you in my arms, heard how much you loved me, kissed those sweetie "pie" lips. Two months since we've snuggled. Two months of pure absolute Hell.
I've wanted for a long time to write a little about Nolan's last days. His last few days shined with how amazing my son is. How beautiful he is. How he was made of nothing but pure love. This may be long, but bear with me, it's agony unlike any other.
When I brought Nolan to the hospital for the last time, I knew there was something else wrong other than just a lingering case of C-DIFF. I just knew, and strange enough, I think he did too. He hadn't eaten or drank anything in days and was continually vomiting.
On February 1st we were sat down with his ENTIRE team. When his Oncologist spoke, I saw the pure pain in her eyes. She had always been honest with us and fought along side of us the whole time, but his updated CT scan showed large tumors that grew compressing his bronchial tubes and heart within four weeks of his open chest surgery. The Mestatic Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma was spreading like wild fire. She explained at this time she didn't feel his Cancer was treatable as it had become resistant to all treatment options we had tried and the plan would be to keep him comfortable as he was deteriorating rapidly.
After a while, I composed myself and went into Nolan's room. He was sitting in "Mommy's Red Chair" watching YouTube on his Tablet. I sat down with him and put my head up against his and had the following conversation:
Me: Poot, it hurts to breathe doesn't it?
Nolan: Weeeelll.... yeah.
Me: You're in a lot of pain aren't you baby?
Nolan: (looking down) Yeah.
Me: Poot, this Cancer stuff sucks. You don't have to fight anymore.
Nolan: (Pure Happiness) I DONT??!! But I will for you Mommy!!
Me: No Poot!! Is that what you have been doing?? Fighting for Mommy??
Nolan: Well DUH!!
Me: Nolan Ray, what is Mommy's job?
Nolan: To keep me SAFE! (With a big grin)
Me: Honey ... I can't do that anymore here. The only way I can keep you safe is in Heaven. (My heart shattering)
Nolan: Sooooo I'll just go to Heaven and play until you get there! You'll come right?
Me: Absolutely!! You can't get rid of Mommy that easy!!
Nolan: Thank you Mommy!!! I'll go play with Hunter and Brylee and Henry!!
The next day he was resting, as he slept most of the days after. We had Hospice on board, all his IV medications, even his DNR signed. (I cannot explain to you what signing an Emergency Responder "Do Not Resuscitate" order for your angelic son feels like. ) When he woke up we had the van packed and I had his shoes in my hand to take him home for the evening. We just wanted ONE more night together. But as he woke, he gently put his hand on mine and said "Mommy, it's ok. Let's just stay here ok?" My 4 year old Hero was trying to make sure things were easy for me....
So in between sleeping for the next 36 hours, we played, watched YouTube, shot Nerf Gun after Nerf Gun and smiled as many times as we could. An hour or so before he passed he even filled out a "Will"! We laid in bed together and he sketched out how he wanted his funeral, picked his pall bearers, what he wanted people to wear, wrote down what he was leaving each of us, and even wrote down what he wanted to be remembered as... which of course was a Policeman 👮🏻
About 9:00pm we were watching YouTube in bed (Peppa Pig actually) and I asked Nolan if I could get in the shower, as I was not allowed to leave him and Mommy had to be touching him at all times. He said "Ummmm ok Mommy. Have Uncle Chris come sit with me and I'll turn this way so I can see you". I stood at the bathroom door, turned to him and said "Keep looking right here Poot, I'll be out in two seconds". He smiled at me. I shut the bathroom door. They said the moment the bathroom door clicked he shut his eyes and went into a deep sleep, beginning the end of life passing.
When I opened the bathroom door, his Team was surrounding his bed and every head turned and looked at me with tears in their eyes. They said "Ruth, he's in a deep sleep. He can't feel anything". His respirations were extremely labored, his right lung had collapsed and his oxygen dropped.
I ran and jumped into bed with him and put my hand on the right side of his face. Then a miracle that I will never forget happened....
My angel took a breath, opened his eyes, smiled at me and said "I Love You Mommy", turned his head towards me and at 11:54 pm Sgt. Rollin Nolan Scully passed away as I was singing "You are My Sunshine" in his ear.
He woke up out of a coma to say he loved me with a smile on his face! My son died a Hero. He brought Communities together, different occupations, made a difference in people's lives all around the world. He was a warrior who died with dignity and love to the last second.
All Nolan ever wanted to do was to serve and protect others, he did just that all the way up to his last breath and continues to do so every day. He loved his family fiercely and everyone of his "friends"!
I look at everything he accomplished in 4 short years and can only think of what he could've accomplished with a longer life. But sadly because of Childhood Cancer (Rhabdomyosarcoma to be specific), the world and our family will miss out on someone so full of love, who just wanted to protect and serve. We HAVE to do better with funding, research, treatment options. Below is a picture that seemed to grab everyone's attention because my son was terrified to leave my side, even as I showered.
Now I'm the one terrified to shower. With nothing but an empty shower rug now where once a beautiful perfect little boy laid waiting for his Mommy.
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Treasure what u have before it's too late. Nolan the big hero, may u had so much fun in heaven while waiting for mummy.👼🏻
Two months. Two months since I've held you in my arms, heard how much you loved me, kissed those sweetie "pie" lips. Two months since we've snuggled. Two months of pure absolute Hell.
I've wanted for a long time to write a little about Nolan's last days. His last few days shined with how amazing my son is. How beautiful he is. How he was made of nothing but pure love. This may be long, but bear with me, it's agony unlike any other.
When I brought Nolan to the hospital for the last time, I knew there was something else wrong other than just a lingering case of C-DIFF. I just knew, and strange enough, I think he did too. He hadn't eaten or drank anything in days and was continually vomiting.
On February 1st we were sat down with his ENTIRE team. When his Oncologist spoke, I saw the pure pain in her eyes. She had always been honest with us and fought along side of us the whole time, but his updated CT scan showed large tumors that grew compressing his bronchial tubes and heart within four weeks of his open chest surgery. The Mestatic Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma was spreading like wild fire. She explained at this time she didn't feel his Cancer was treatable as it had become resistant to all treatment options we had tried and the plan would be to keep him comfortable as he was deteriorating rapidly.
After a while, I composed myself and went into Nolan's room. He was sitting in "Mommy's Red Chair" watching YouTube on his Tablet. I sat down with him and put my head up against his and had the following conversation:
Me: Poot, it hurts to breathe doesn't it?
Nolan: Weeeelll.... yeah.
Me: You're in a lot of pain aren't you baby?
Nolan: (looking down) Yeah.
Me: Poot, this Cancer stuff sucks. You don't have to fight anymore.
Nolan: (Pure Happiness) I DONT??!! But I will for you Mommy!!
Me: No Poot!! Is that what you have been doing?? Fighting for Mommy??
Nolan: Well DUH!!
Me: Nolan Ray, what is Mommy's job?
Nolan: To keep me SAFE! (With a big grin)
Me: Honey ... I can't do that anymore here. The only way I can keep you safe is in Heaven. (My heart shattering)
Nolan: Sooooo I'll just go to Heaven and play until you get there! You'll come right?
Me: Absolutely!! You can't get rid of Mommy that easy!!
Nolan: Thank you Mommy!!! I'll go play with Hunter and Brylee and Henry!!
The next day he was resting, as he slept most of the days after. We had Hospice on board, all his IV medications, even his DNR signed. (I cannot explain to you what signing an Emergency Responder "Do Not Resuscitate" order for your angelic son feels like. ) When he woke up we had the van packed and I had his shoes in my hand to take him home for the evening. We just wanted ONE more night together. But as he woke, he gently put his hand on mine and said "Mommy, it's ok. Let's just stay here ok?" My 4 year old Hero was trying to make sure things were easy for me....
So in between sleeping for the next 36 hours, we played, watched YouTube, shot Nerf Gun after Nerf Gun and smiled as many times as we could. An hour or so before he passed he even filled out a "Will"! We laid in bed together and he sketched out how he wanted his funeral, picked his pall bearers, what he wanted people to wear, wrote down what he was leaving each of us, and even wrote down what he wanted to be remembered as... which of course was a Policeman 👮🏻
About 9:00pm we were watching YouTube in bed (Peppa Pig actually) and I asked Nolan if I could get in the shower, as I was not allowed to leave him and Mommy had to be touching him at all times. He said "Ummmm ok Mommy. Have Uncle Chris come sit with me and I'll turn this way so I can see you". I stood at the bathroom door, turned to him and said "Keep looking right here Poot, I'll be out in two seconds". He smiled at me. I shut the bathroom door. They said the moment the bathroom door clicked he shut his eyes and went into a deep sleep, beginning the end of life passing.
When I opened the bathroom door, his Team was surrounding his bed and every head turned and looked at me with tears in their eyes. They said "Ruth, he's in a deep sleep. He can't feel anything". His respirations were extremely labored, his right lung had collapsed and his oxygen dropped.
I ran and jumped into bed with him and put my hand on the right side of his face. Then a miracle that I will never forget happened....
My angel took a breath, opened his eyes, smiled at me and said "I Love You Mommy", turned his head towards me and at 11:54 pm Sgt. Rollin Nolan Scully passed away as I was singing "You are My Sunshine" in his ear.
He woke up out of a coma to say he loved me with a smile on his face! My son died a Hero. He brought Communities together, different occupations, made a difference in people's lives all around the world. He was a warrior who died with dignity and love to the last second.
All Nolan ever wanted to do was to serve and protect others, he did just that all the way up to his last breath and continues to do so every day. He loved his family fiercely and everyone of his "friends"!
I look at everything he accomplished in 4 short years and can only think of what he could've accomplished with a longer life. But sadly because of Childhood Cancer (Rhabdomyosarcoma to be specific), the world and our family will miss out on someone so full of love, who just wanted to protect and serve. We HAVE to do better with funding, research, treatment options. Below is a picture that seemed to grab everyone's attention because my son was terrified to leave my side, even as I showered.
Now I'm the one terrified to shower. With nothing but an empty shower rug now where once a beautiful perfect little boy laid waiting for his Mommy.
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ไปไหนได้บ้าง ขอไปยืนข้างๆได้ไหม (Where Can I Go)
ศิลปิน : LADY SITA x KP ANGEL
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เนื้อเพลง
* ไปไหนได้บ้าง ขอไปยืนข้างๆได้ไหม
ฉันสัญญาจะไม่กวนใจ แค่อยู่ ใกล้เธอ ก็พอ
จะไม่ร้องขอ เพียงเฝ้ารอเธออยู่แบบนี้
มอบให้เธอแต่ความหวังดี แค่เธอ สุขใจ ก็พอ
รักที่ได้พบ ฉันไม่อยากจบลงที่จาก
ทั้งๆ ที่อยากซบ แต่ก็ต้องหลบมาให้ห่าง
เหมือนว่าเธออยู่ไกล จนสุดไขว่มือคว้า
แล้วฉันต้องทำเช่นไร ถึงจะได้ใจเธอนะ
ขอวิงวอนต่อหมู่ดาว ให้เขาหันมองฉันสักคราว
ใกล้ฉันใต้จันทร์คืนสกาว ก็ไม่รู้ว่าขอมากหรือป่าว
คิดว่า เธอ คงไม่ใจร้าย ที่ตรงนั้น เป็นฉันได้มั้ย...
( * )
(KP) ขอเพียงแค่ได้ใกล้ แม้จะไม่ได้ซึ่งความรัก
หัวใจฉันไม่ฟังเสียง มันบอกขอเพียงแค่ได้รัก
ใจเธอนั้น พอมีฉันบ้างหรือป่าว คิดยังไงกัน ช่วยบอกฉันให้รู้ข่าว
ฉันอยู่ไม่ไกล ถ้าไม่มองผ่านไปเธอคงเห็น
หวังเป็นคนในใจ แต่ทำไมเส้นทางช่างยากเย็น
รู้ ว่าใจ เธอมีแต่เขา ยอม...ได้ใกล้ แม้ใจต้องเหงา
( * )
ไม่มีคำพูดใด ส่งไปแค่สายตา
วันไหนที่ทุกข์ใจ บอกฉันได้ในทุกเวลา
อยากจะเข้าไป ให้ใกล้ใจเธอนะ..
จะดูแลและห่วงใย ตลอดไปเลยนะ
(*)
Where can I go?
Can I stand beside you?
I promise I won’t trouble you.
Just being close to you, that’s all.
I won’t beg you for anything,
Just waiting for you right here.
With all my best wishes,
I only wish you happy, my dear.
I’m falling in love and I don't expect to end it.
Though I want to nestle in your arms, I have to keep distance.
It seems you are out of my reach.
What should I do to make you love me?
I pray to the stars wishing to be in your sight sometime.
I wish you stand by me in a full moon night, would it be all right?
I hope you will be kind,
To let me stand by you right there.
Just want to be near you, although I won’t be loved by you.
My heart can’t be restrained from loving you.
I wonder if your heart feels the same as mine.
How do you feel? Please tell me now.
I’ll be around. You’ll see me there if you just care.
I hope to be the one you love, but it’s so hard.
Cause I know your heart already belongs to someone.
Though you're around, I feel so alone.
I have no words, but only my disheartened eyes watching you.
Whenever you feel blue, you can let me know anytime.
I want to stay in your heart.
My love will always take care of you.
Special Thanks
Costume : Nonnawat Atnonplueat
Makeup & Hair Stylist : Sorapoom Srinuam
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Happy Chinese New Year everyone!!
Not only is it CNY, Valentine's Day is also just around the corner! With that in mind, EK and I decided to do this impromptu cover of the ever-so-popular Perfect by Ed Sheeran to share some good vibes with everyone :)
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I found a love for me
Darling just dive right in
And follow my lead
Well I found a girl beautiful and sweet
I never knew you were the someone waiting for me
'Cause we were just kids when we fell in love
Not knowing what it was
I will not give you up this time
But darling, just kiss me slow, your heart is all I own
And in your eyes you're holding mine
Baby, I'm dancing in the dark with you between my arms
Barefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite song
When you said you looked a mess, I whispered underneath my breath
But you heard it, darling, you look perfect tonight
Baby, I'm dancing in the dark, with you between my arms
Barefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite song
I have faith in what I see
Now I know I have met an angel in person
And she looks perfect
I don't deserve this
You look perfect tonight
